One old man was sitting with his 25 years old son in a train.
Train was about to leave the station.
All passengers are settling down on their seats.
As train started young man was filled with a lot of joy and curiosity.
He was sitting on the window side.
He took out one hand and started feeling the wind blowing. He shouted, "Papa see all the trees are going behind".
Old man smile and admired his son's feelings.
Beside the young man one couple was seated who silently listened to all the conversation between the father and the son.
They were feeling little awkward with the attitude of a 25 year old man who was behaving like a small child.
Suddenly young man again shouted, "Papa see the pond and animals. Clouds are moving with train".
Couple was watching the young man with embarrassment.
Now it started raining and some of water drops fell on the young man's hand.
He was filled with joy and he closed his eyes.
He shouted again," Papa it's raining, water is touching me, see papa".
Couple couldn't help themselves and asked the old man.
"Why don't you visit the Doctor and get your son treated?"
Old man replied,
“Yes, we are coming from the hospital as Today my son got his eye sight for first time in his life".
Moral: "Don’t draw conclusions until you know all the facts".
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Drawing conclusions !!
Don't Copy if you can't Paste!
A popular motivational speaker said : "The best years of my life were spent in the arms of a woman who wasn't my wife!"
The Audience was in silence and shock. The speaker added: " And that woman was my mother!"
Laughter and applause!!!
A Top manager trained by him tried to crack this at home. After a drink, He said Loudly to his wife who was preparing dinner, "The greatest years of my life were spent in the arms of a woman who was not my wife!"
Standing there for 20 seconds trying to recall the second half of the joke, The manager finally blurted out".. and I cant remember who she was!" By the time the manager regained his consciousness, he was on a hospital bed.
Moral of the story: Don't Copy if you can't Paste!
Sunday, September 27, 2009
You are the light By Sheryar Nizar, Lyrics Aly Sunderji
My Lord ! You are the light [Original Song] By Sheryar Nizar & Lyrics By Aly Sunderji
You are my happiness you are my destiny
You are the healer of my all difficulties,
You are the manifest Ya anta ismati (my protection)
You are the light
You are the light
My Lord! You are the light
My Lord! You are the light
My love for you is like a rapid butterfly
You are the wings behind my back that make my fly
You are the clear air that suspends me high
You are the light
My Lord! You are the light
My Lord! You are the light
(Written by : Aly Sunderji)
Monday, August 10, 2009
Quotes that may change your life
"People are often unreasonable and self-centred, forgive them anyway.
If you are honest people may cheat you, be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous, be happy anyway.... Read More
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow, do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough, give your best anyway.
In the END, it is between you and Allah its never was between you and them anyway..."
Everyone is gifted - but some people never open their package.
The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.
Every story has a end, but in life every end is just a new beginning.
Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it.
Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, its about learning to dance in the rain.
Study as if you were to live forever. Live as if you were to die tomorrow.
The optimist proclaims that we live in the best of all possible worlds; and the pessimist fears this is true.
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.
The one who try never fails.
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.
With confidence, you have won before you have started.
Don't let the thought drive you , drive your thoughts.
Try and fail, but don't fail to try
Well-timed silence has more eloquence than speech.
Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend.
To know how to do something well is to enjoy it.
Indolence is a delightful but distressing state; we must be doing something to be happy.
You get the best out of others when you get the best out of yourself.
Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.
If u have humanity, u have everything. (salon guy at my organization)
Set a thief to catch the thief (dad)
Smile because its the second best thing you can do with ur lips
The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure.
In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.(Bill Cosby)
The only place success comes before work is in the dictionary.
Empty pockets never held anyone back. Only empty heads and empty hearts can do that.
Four things for success: work and pray, think and believe.
Change your thoughts and you change your world.(Norman Vincent Peale)
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. - Dalai Lama
Deal with the faults of others as gently as with your own.
Not admiring a mistake is a bigger mistake. (Robert Half)
Be less curious about people and more curious about ideas.
Always remember money isn't everything; But make sure that you've made lot of it before talking such nonsense. (Bill Gates)
Genius ain't anything more than elegant common sense.
Be who you are and say what you feel coz those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
Selecting best words are most important for better communication
In faith there is enough light for those who want to believe and enough shadows to blind those who don't.
Worries are not the part of this world but they all are in our minds which we create by ourself. - meditation is the only solution. (sheryar nizar)
There are no mistakes in life.. only lessons, to uplift our soul.. so the more bad time you face.. the more you learn.. and feel better..
A man of courage is also full of faith.
Live with passion and purpose, Laugh and play everyday, Focus on all good thing in life.Feel the love, joy abundance, Free to be yourself, be Greatful to be yourself.
Miracles happen everyday, change your perception of what a miracle is and you'll see them all around you.-Jon Bon Jovi
Music doesn't lie. If there is something to be changed in this world, then it can only happen through music.-Jimi Hendrix
Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within reach of every hand.
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
In the practice of tolerance, one's enemy is the best teacher.
Life never seems to be the way you want it but live it the best way you can as i believe there is no perfect life but you can fill it with perfect moments..
Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.
Let us touch the dying, the poor, the lonely and the unwanted according to the graces we have received and let us not be ashamed or slow to do the humble work - Mother Teresa
To make money we lose our health, and then to restore our health we lose our money... We live as if we are never going to die, and we die as if we never lived....
You are educated when you have the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or self-confidence.
Deal with the faults of others as gently as with your own.
The best gift that has been given to us by God is family..
Heal the world, make it a better place For you and for me and the entire human race. There are people dying. If you care enough for the living, Make a better place for you and for me. - Michael Jackson (MJ)
Thinks.... Life is just a small journey of soul.
A day without laughter is a day wasted.
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
The reason why worry kills more people than work is that more people worry than work.
Home is the place where, when you have to go there, they have to take you in.
In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on. (Robert Frost)
people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
There is more hunger for love in this world than for bread.
Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless. (Mother Teresa)
we have reached the sky but have failed to reach whats in our heart.
who are busy fighting satan, have we ever fought out own evil intentions.!
we all might have read so many books.. now its time to read our inner self.... .. Have you ever visited your own soul ?
The difference between a job and a career is the difference between forty and sixty hours a week.
Sunday, March 29, 2009
What is Your Attitude Toward Work?
Attitude counts for a lot. Just think of how often people's attitudes affect your perception of them. First impressions often come down to phrases such as, "He had the worst attitude" or, "She has the best attitude of anyone I've ever met."
When you walk into your workplace -- whether it's a department store or hospital -- what are you thinking? Do you feel excited because you love your job? Are you filled with dread because you hate your job?
Your attitude toward work might impact your career more than you realize.
The runway model
When models work the catwalk, they act as if the audience isn't there. The flashbulbs blind them, but their faces seem to say, "I don't have time to care about this crowd; I have a catwalk to strut down." They're on emotionless autopilot, if you will.
What works for models doesn't work for everyone ... in case that unsuccessful liquid diet you tried wasn't enough proof. A numb approach to work raises questions about your performance: Do you care about your job? Do you know what you're doing? How long will you stick around? Does anyone even want to interact with you?
Todd Dewett, associate professor of management at Wright State University in Dayton, Ohio, suggests these workers take a step back to look at their work in its appropriate context.
"All work is interdependent, yet most people have difficulty understanding where much of their work came from and where it will go -- they don't see the connections in the larger process," he says. "The more someone understands how their work impacts others, the more they are likely to care."
Dewett advises you to think of yourself as part of a team working toward a goal, not as an isolated cog in a machine. Look at the result of your hard work and maybe you can find a reason to care about your job, even if you don't love it.
The emotional teenager
Teenagers are nothing if not experts at looking at the cruel, torturous underbelly of life. A bad day when you're 15 years old isn't just a bad day; it's the worst day anyone has ever experienced in the history of human existence. Every phone call is a life-altering conversation of import no one can comprehend.
Hyperbolic workers aren't too different. They don't know how to put their workdays in perspective. Yes, some jobs are nightmares incarnate, but no job is nirvana, either. Difficult customers or incompetent bosses can mar the occasional day. Are you able to draw a distinction between a bad day and a bad situation?
"It is possible to frame things mentally such that you see them as only short-term realities that can change over time. From this 'glass half-full' perspective, any single bad role or colleague is but a few frames in a long roll of film. The focus then shifts from obsessing on the current situation to designing a real plan of action to create a new and better future situation," Dewett says.
On the flip side, rather than make you appreciate your job more, a new perspective might make you realize you belong elsewhere. If you're conditioned to despise work every time the alarm rings, you could end up stuck at a job that's just wrong for you.
"If you do actually hate your job, you might not be in need [of] a job tweak, but rather a full-fledged job change or career change," Dewett suggests. "Having said that, even in the worst professional situations, for the open minded, there is a lot to learn about how you got there and what [likely exists] there that will help you avoid it completely in the future."
Pollyanna
The classic children's book "Pollyanna," which follows a girl whose philosophy to focus on the positive, is an admirable, if not impossible, model to follow. Yet, some workers' abilities to convey Pollyanna's unrelenting optimism astound others and can be detrimental to their own careers.
The drawback to this work method is that you might find yourself out of the loop when it comes to how decisions are made, as they aren't always made in open discussions. Dewett cautions workers to pay attention to how decisions are made so that they can be aware of or participate in the process.
"People with overly rosy views (due to solid 'fit,' a great boss or colleagues or both) can be somewhat naïve politically," Dewett warns. "I would never advocate that a person with character and rosy glasses engage in too much political behavior, but you need to be aware of it."
Don't sacrifice the love you have of your job. After all, many people would be thrilled to enjoy going to work in the morning. A balanced perspective is all you need.
"Love your job, love your company -- but use your network so that you keep up to speed with the major political currents of the day as they might affect you and your work unit."
The transient
Perhaps more distracting than any other workplace attitude is that of the employee who never seems to set his or her bag down. For some workers, certain jobs are temporary. They never intend to stay long and they know something better is on the horizon, even if their employer is unaware of their agenda. While that approach might be appropriate in some circumstances -- and you never want to assume that any job is the last one you'll take because you don't know what the future holds -- don't live in that mentality.
For one thing, your boss and co-workers might get a sense of your fleeting mindset and treat you accordingly. If you never personalize your workspace or only talk about your future with the company in hypotheticals, they'll question your commitment. Do they want to give you a project or promote you if you seem to have one foot out the door already?
For your own sake, allow yourself to consider the possibility that your job has a lot to offer. Even if you don't want to stay there forever, let your mind relax by accepting the fact that you can see yourself in that position a year or two from now. You'll be surprised how stressful always being on the move is. Plus, you might realize you were closing off opportunities for personal and career growth by keeping yourself primed to leave at any minute. If another job eventually comes your way, you can weigh the pros and cons of taking it – when you're faced with the decision, not because you're always looking for it.
Anthony Balderrama is a writer and blogger for CareerBuilder.com. He researches and writes about job search strategy, career management, hiring trends and workplace issues.
